Why Do Healers Hurt Themselves?

Recently I talked to a few people about my plans to go and see a local healer because I felt like I needed help to process all the information I had learnt in Mexico. As well as shifting all the issues I had dug up, I felt very heavy and like my light body was clogged and like I couldn’t even think.

Some of the reactions I got was really surprising – I was given the impression that they thought I could handle it myself and should try and process it completely by myself. It almost felt like they believed I was not enabling myself by seeking help and healing from another. After my healing I have felt fantastic and I was so happy that I went and received the support that I needed – because if I hadn’t I would still be processing Mexico for weeks.

Last night a healer talked to me about how they had been processing a massive life lesson/issue over the last three months and they had undergone a massive transformation. I suggested going and seeing a healer because it sounded like they needed some support shifting all that they had processed and I was shocked at the reaction. The healers face instantly closed over and their body language also showed me instant rejection of the idea. I was left floundering as to why one healer would not go and seek help from another healer when they needed it?

This is not an isolated experience – it constantly surprises me that some healers I talk to refuse to go and see other healers. To me that is like shooting yourself in the foot, we are all processing so much stuff and so super fast that it makes complete logical sense to go to another healer and have them cleanse your light body and support you. I don’t know if everyone feels the same but I felt like the last three months have been MASSIVE and I did 6-9 months worth of living in just the three months.

I can understand how some healers feel like they HAVE to heal themselves because they can do it. Well of course they can – So can I. I have absolutely zero doubt that I could have processed Mexico and all it means to me but it would have taken me weeks. I am also aware that there is deeper layers and I will be discovering things as the months move on…but at least I can now think because I went and got help in the initial processing stages when things are so dense and emotional.

But my question remains… why do so many healers I know put themselves through weeks and in some cases even months of processing issues when going and getting help can bring you instant relief and clarity.

Lets face it – if you are going through a emotional or spiritual lesson or cleanse – then you are going to be so emotionally invested that it will take you longer to heal/process. Another part of me wonders if the healers feel slightly insecure – like they are promoting themselves as healers so if they have issues and need help maybe they feel they cannot get help because they are suppose to be able to do it themselves?

Most healers I know are so busy healing others they often put themselves last. I hope that one day our healers learn to nurture themselves just as much as they do others and realise that they are allowed to go to another healer for help. In fact by keeping yourself healthy and in as high vibration as possible you will be able to heal more people that if you just constantly have to rely just yourself.

Oneness is about realising we are all one. So if you are in need of support then go get that support because you will be doing the greatest good for the planet if you do. If we are all one and you are feeling bogged down with layers of issues then you actually are giving that feeling and projection to the rest of the planet. However if you seek help, heal yourself and quickly align back with your centre then you are in fact helping the entire planet.

If you need support and healing then please go and seek it. If you are truly suppose to work on the issue by yourself then your higherself will show you clear signs. In the past I have had to work on some issues and when I tried calling my favourite healer she was away or booked out etc.

Remember many life lessons are intellectual and from the heart. We have to process it in the mind then the heart to fully integrate the lesson, however if you are feeling some kind of energetic blockage or heaviness then you should go to a healer to clear it if you are not in the head space to clear it yourself.

My comments are of course not about all healers but I have witnessed enough situation to prompt this post.

Love and Light to All xoxoxox

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